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Gay Marriage & Barney

Oni wat ya kawin sejenis bih?


What's wrong with Barney???!!
If you're like me (a guy), then it is NATURAL to fall in love with a woman and then marry her. Now I'm not against people who think they prefer other people who are of the same gender. But I'm just dumbfounded by the fact that Neil Patrick Harris, who plays Barney (or his Swedish cousin Bjorney..and also his doppleganger Dr. Spangle) in How I Met Your Mother is actually gay. Imagine that, the guy who plays the ultimate playboy is in fact the poster boy of same sex marriage? It took him just under 5 hours after New York City legalized gay marriages to declare his marriage to his long time fiance' - or is it fiancee?

Now for the people who do (or do not) follow the sitcom, Barney has developed a cult-hero status for two things I guess:

  • the Bro-Code (the bible for buddies..and wingmen)
  • the fascination (or fetish) for women (usually hot ones...remember his story about girls and manateees?)

Somehow, down the line..he must have mixed up the two things are it turned into the Bro-Fetish! Anyways, my congratulations to Neil Patrick Harris for his future nuptial. But I still personally think that it is just not right for individuals of the same gender to marry. No matter how much a person tries to dabble about it, fact is - a man's a man and men are meant to be with women. So too is the woman. It is embedded in the human physiology to be so. The personal or 'emotional' preference that causes a man to love another man, I think, is mostly caused by the environmental effects in the development of  a person's personality. I just can't believe that you are born inclusive with the desire to love someone of the same gender. Something in life must have sub-consciously embedded and then triggered that preference.

Barney (always in a suite!) & co at MacLarens (their drinking hole)

The sentence that goes,"I nak buat macam maner, dah Tuhan buatkan I macam ni, jasad lelaki tetapi jiwa wanita." is simply an excuse given to 'indirectly' place the blame on God. But don't be confused between gays and those who are the 'cross-gender soul-body mismatch' or pondan. Gays can be a man who's as manly as any man and women who are as feminine as any other. It's just that they ar able to fall in love with someone of the same gender.

Personality and consciusness separates men from animals in what makes us special creatures of God, and with those two attributes we have been given the power of choice. So yes, a man can CHOOSE to marry another man - probably out of love...but that inevitibly does probably would not go well with God. That's just my opinion, I mean otherwise he would not need to create 'women' in the first place right? To me, it's just that there's an awkwardness when humans try to defy something like that. But whatever makes you happy...ok la, it's all up to the individual themselves.

Barney in 'action'!!
All I can say is Selamat Pengantin Baru Barney!
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